How confident is the average American man over 45? When it comes to self-belief, our survey results* are in, and one thing is crystal clear: American men are as confident as they come.
Many men say they could still go pro in football, basketball, or baseball. Others picture themselves stepping up in life-or-death emergencies like landing a plane or even taking on a wild animal.
But hereās the kicker. While 1 in 3 men over 40 will deal with urinary incontinence in their lifetime, far fewer see it as a real possibility, even more so when compared with the feats weāve asked them about.
Letās look what men over 45 think they could master
What Extraordinary Feats Do American Men over 45 Think They Can Achieve?
Letās face it. Youāve probably imagined a dozen scenarios where you are that dude. And our survey found that youāre definitely not alone in this, plus some other surprising results.
Landing Planes to Bear Grylls-esque Survival Skills?
Ever pictured yourself saving the day on a plane? 31% of American men aged 45+ believe they could land a plane in an emergency.
Think your survival skills could hold up in the wild?
27% of the men in our survey believe they could fight a wild animal, and 46% say they could last a week in the wilderness with only basic skills and limited supplies.
And if the world ended tomorrow?
32% of men are confident theyād survive a zombie apocalypse.
For sports fans, confidence levels run high too.
17% believe they could last one minute in the ring with a pro boxer, 15% think they could score a hole in one in under 100 tries, and 13% believe they could nail a penalty shot in a World Cup Final.
Itās Time to Break Some Stigmas and Banish some Taboos
Many men face incontinence silently, believing theyāre alone, or an outlier. Itās not something you talk about casually while youāre watching a sports game now, is it?
The thing is, thereās absolutely no reason to feel embarrassed if you have incontinence, and you do not have to deal in silence. Drips and dribbles happen (to 1 in 3 men over 401 to be exact). Itās a manageable condition, and the right products and support could make all the difference.
At TENA, we offer a full range of menās guards, underwear, and briefs designed to fit your lifestyle and give you total control. Whether youāre at work, at home, firing up the barbecue on game day or de-stressing with a game of pickleball, weāve got what you need to feel confident and comfortable every day.
Methodology:
* The research was conducted by Censuswide in September 2025 among a nationally representative sample of 2,004 men aged 18 and over in the United States. The sample included 409 respondents from the Midwest, 454 from the Northeast, 799 from the South, and 342 from the West. Of the total respondents, 1,074 were men aged 45 and above.
Source:
1. TENA Menās A&U, MarketVision Research, May 2025 (n=3,161, nationally representative sample of men ages 40+, US)